Author Archives: shelleylynn

“If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” Wayne Dyer 30 cows, 28 chicken. How many didn’t? The answer is 10. The answer doesn’t make sense does it? Or… maybe it does. Maybe if you look at it a different way. Maybe if your perspective alters just aContinue reading “30 cows, 28 chicken.”

There is a new Netflix show out right now that seems to be all the rage. It is called Maid and is based on a memoir written by Stephanie Land. It is getting a lot of recognition on social media… a lot of talk around the water cooler… a lot of praise. If you haven’tContinue reading “A TV show review.”

“You don’t always have to be holding up the walls. Sometimes the walls are there for you to lean on.” Me At first I didn’t want to write this because I had already written a post about a fire. But then… Then my neighbors garage burnt to the ground and once again, I was inspiredContinue reading “The second fire.”

“Blowing out someone else’s candle doesn’t make yours shine any brighter.” Unknown Jealousy is a funny thing. We all suffer from it I think. We just don’t admit it. It comes in different forms. And it is not always what we think it is. The obvious state of jealousy that comes in the form ofContinue reading “The green monster.”

“Don’t look back and ask, why? Look ahead and ask, why not?“ Neil Patel There is a saying in my family… it started with a podcast called the Monday Nooner that my brother-in-law listens to. In the podcast they consistently ask the question ‘why wouldn’t a guy (or girl to be politically correct and all)?’Continue reading “Why wouldn’t a guy.”

“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. When I let go of what I have, I receive what I need.” Lao Tzu I spent this past weekend at a place that had some beautiful memories. I was hesitant to go as I was not sure how I wouldContinue reading “The return to the Inn.”

“Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it.” Hellen Keller We have had a troubling summer in the Okanagan to say the least. The busiest tourist season I have seen in 14 years. A backward slide in our Covid recovery. And then the fires. All of thisContinue reading “The fire.”

Ah the mid-life crisis. It’s been around forever. Experienced by so many. So what is this ‘crisis’? We very easily reference this crisis when viewing a friend, family member or co-worker doing something out of their norm. Something no one expects of them. Whether it be leaving their partner, quitting a job, or maybe justContinue reading “The mid-life crisis crisis.”

“Argue for your limitations and sure enough, they’re yours.” Richard Bach Do you know your limits? I mean, do you really? If your answer is yes, I have another question. How do you know? We all have limits but most of us don’t actually know what they are. We set them prematurely so that weContinue reading “Know your limits.”

Home[hom] noun a gathering place for family to join together in laughter. the one place you will always be surrounded by those who love you. a place or feeling of belonging. I just returned from a road trip traipsing across the prairies with multiple stops in Alberta and Saskatchewan. It was rejuvenating. It was gratifying.Continue reading “I found home.”